12 signs someone is a backstabber (and you need to protect yourself)
Inconsistent Behavior: They act differently around you compared to how they behave with others, showing a lack of authenticity and potential deceit.
Gossips About Others: They frequently talk negatively about other people, which can be a red flag that they might also gossip about you behind your back.
Undermines Your Achievements: They downplay or dismiss your successes and contributions, potentially out of jealousy or a desire to undermine you.
Frequent Complaints: They often complain about others, including you, to manipulate or pit people against each other.
– Secretive Actions: They keep their plans or actions hidden from you, creating a sense of mystery that may indicate hidden agendas.
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Flattery with Strings Attached: They give excessive compliments or praise but often have an ulterior motive or are seeking something in return.
Evasive Communication: They avoid direct answers or are vague when discussing important matters, making it hard to discern their true intentions.
Breaks Promises: They frequently fail to follow through on commitments or agreements, showing a lack of reliability and trustworthiness.